从老公的角度看试管婴儿疗程
当一对夫妻要做 #IVF试管疗程时,做丈夫的应该用什么态度来面对?常常有网友告诉我说,我的老公精子不好,可是他还是不能戒烟戒酒,好不配合。要知道,不孕症不只是女人的责任,男人也是有责任。这篇文章,是以男人的角度出发,里面分享身为丈夫应该如何帮助太太一起度过疗程,文章是英文内容,是奥莉爸爸写的,奥莉爸不会中文。分享给大家😊
IVF Journey, A Husband’s Perspective
Hi all, before reading further I would like to say this is NOT an instruction or tips for IVF and hopefully readers will understand my poorly written English. This is my journey as a father of the IVF baby girl. Why am I sharing all this? It is because my wife had a Facebook page of her IVF journey at https://facebook.com/ivfjourney2015/ and she told me that majorities (not all but most) feedback indicate husband not supportive enough to commit into a journey of IVF. I’m not a true supportive husband either, least I made up my mind to make it happen.
Let’s start with “Why IVF?”
We went for a fertilization test and results with;
Husband: Teratospermia (Human language, sperm is weak for fertilization process)
Wife: Unexplained infertility (I think this is easy to understand, there is for the confirming reason for this result and we don’t go for further test after it because it will consumes too much time and money)
We married and planned to have children late 2011, both our ages were 37 in 2015 because of late marriage. My wife introduced IVF because she does not want to give up and feels regretful in future and so do I. Maybe because I did too many regretful things in the past, now I do not want this happened to my wife. At least I do it better then ignoring it.
Preparation for IVF
Financially, I know it will involve amount of 20k – 30k “Ringgit Malaysia” in the whole process depending on the situation and this is only one chance for me. I don’t have the money for a second attempt because I need to allocate funds for delivery if success.
Mentally, I do some studies/research on IVF. The whole journey took 50 days and in one of the process my wife needs to do a self-injection daily. I quickly asked my wife “Daily injection?! Do I need to fetch you to clinic daily to do this?” She answered “No, we need to do this ourselves”. A final question from me going to be “How?!” After we sat down and discuss, we comes into conclusion and I will do the injection for her. This was the most painful and nervous moment I ever experience by poking a needle to my wife’s belly EVERYDAY!
Lifestyle, 6 months earlier. My wife told me the NO’s, NO alcohol NO smoking NO midnight wandering NO stress. I said, I will fly up to the skies like butterfly if I able to do all the NO’s. It’s like a mission impossible. How can a man like me not go out to social with friends without alcohol and smoke? The joke was sleeping early! You want me to social with my friends in breakfast or lunch time? At this time, she softly said “I really wants to have a cute baby in future, it looks more like a family. Furthermore, I don’t want to have regretful moments in future”. All these words came out of my love (wife), her words melted in my heart deeply. I told her “Ok, we will go for it BUT you will need to promise me ONE IMPORTANT thing. No matter the process success or not we only have one attempt we need to accept the truth and live happily without regret in future.” she agreed.
Commitment, this is not some empty promise. I made a huge commitment to change my lifestyle into zero alcohol, tobacco and lesser stress. If comparing the pain and suffers my wife will take in this journey e.g., injection, medication effects, hormone changes and all the effects from pregnancies to delivery, mine looks more alike small potatoes (looks much more simple). Trust me guys, don't compare it, if you do and more likely you're going loose badly. For the sake of making a better future, I had fulfilled this commitment.
IVF Journey Phase 1 “Unskilled Husband Injection”
Day 1, doctor consults us for Buserelin injection. I need to inject this medication into my wife's belly each day sharp at 8AM. The nurse had guided me side by side to do the first injection.
Day 2, I started my first injection to my wife's belly without anyone guiding beside. Feels a bit nervous because this time I'm doing it all by myself. I try to hum some music to distract my wife's from looking at the needle while injecting but still she is looking at it.
Day 3 - Day 15, sometime the injection hurting and causes bleeding/bruise to her. I need to find a new spot to inject every time and sees her bruise makes my pain in the heart too. My injection skills improved dramatically. She even told me that she doesn't feel pain like the beginning stages.
Day 16, follow up 2nd checkup. Doctor said, everything goes smoothly and added another medication to inject called Gonal-F to take home and start injecting on day 23. This message never surprises me because I've been told earlier, but just that the price to pay for this medication is quite costly.
Day 17 - Day 22, nothing much on these days and we just stick on the plan as usual.
IVF Journey Phase 2 “Stressful Night”
Day 23, Gonal F injections start today. This needle doesn't look same as those earlier, it comes with medication in it and look like a pen.
Day 24 - Day 26, side effects of the Gonal F medications started. My wife is feeling irritation at the injection site, fullness, bloating and tenderness in the lower abdomen due to the increasing size of the ovaries. Her mood changes dramatically as I can tell, but she endures it and tell me she can handle it.
Day 27, follow up 3rd checkup. Doctor said wife has eggs total of 12 and is ready for Transvaginal oocyte retrieval "Human language, Egg retrieval" at day 31.
Day 28 - Day 29, final injection of Gonal F. At day 29 night, I inject Ovidrel to wife belly to that causes the growth and release of a mature egg (ovulation) for day 31.
Day 30, resting whole day. Finally, we had a day without injection and worrying about holding any needles. Today we wondering about the egg growth, not knowing will the eggs grow more or still the same amount of 12.
Day 31, egg retrieval. 8 egg success retrieves and I give out my sperm for oocytes selection on the same day. Wife given cyclogest for oval protection after the egg retrieval.
IVF Journey Phase 3 “Hopeful Embryo Culture & Embryo Transfer”
Day 32 - Day 35, rest at home. We had pillow talk every night concerning about the growth of an embryo. We also look at sample growth stages of an embryo from the web to see what the current growth stage is.
Day 36, another hopeful and nervous morning. Doctor tells us the result of embryo culture as below;
Total Embryo Retrieve: 8
Embryo Qualified for ICSI: 6
Embryo Success until Cleavage Stage (Day 2 – Day 4): 3
Embryo Success until Blastocyst Stage (Day 5): 2
Embryo Qualified / Recommended for Transfer: 1
Both our eyes looked at each other, knowing only 1 Blastocyst Embryo available to transfer and doctor tell the same after it. I really do not know how to express both our feelings into words here, as we expected to have at least 2 Blastocyst out of 8 embryos and only left 1. We both agreed to proceed this only 1 Blastocyst transfer as this is the only choice we had. It's more likely walking on a 100ft tall string with no supports mission, a single error will fail the mission.
After the transfer process, wife given a room to rest for few hours. A nurse came and give us adjunctive medications, injections and advice while resting at room.
IVF Journey Phase 4 “The Final Moment of IVF”
Day 37 - Day 49, after the transfer. This period is known as 2WW (2 Weeks Wait) with adjunctive medications, injections and be very careful. I just let her sleep/rest more on the bed, I served her every meal in the room. We're also nervous and curious about pregnancy results on day 44, we tested with cheap pregnancy tester and get got a double line on it and we do have a little hope and joy with this result. On day 47, again we test, but this time with expensive pregnancy tester and the results double line again! We're so hopeful and happy at this moment. We really hope this result is true until the next checkup.
Day 50, final checkup. My wife goes for the hCG test by giving a sample of blood, we waited 2 hours for the results. While waiting, nurse guide us to a room to rest. Wife slept and I sat beside concerned on the hCG test results. 2 hours later, the doctor invited us to look for him. Before doctor speaks, while we are sitting down, my wife's eyes were starring in the hCG results number and she spotted the hCG number is 452. She smiles happily while doctor tells her "You are pregnant and congratulations! Come back after 2 weeks to scan for baby heartbeats. And please go out to the counter and ring the bell!”
Just Sharing My Thoughts
By all means, I’m not bragging about my success. I would like to say if anyone is planning on IVF, teamwork is very important and husband play a very important role to increase the success rate. Sometimes, I do feel like a spectator than a participant myself because I never experience any of the medical exams but this is not true. Every injection I put on her belly, I feel the pain in my heart as bad as she has on the belly. Ok, nothing much to share in this IVF journey and next time I might be sharing another journey as a Father! Here is my little baby girl Facebook page奥莉 Olivia Baby - 梁童心心 https://fb.me/oliviababylove if you wish to see her growth updates.
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首先謝謝大家 讓我在一個半月 達到200人訂閱!
Thanks everyone let me in one and a half months to reach 200 subscribers!
1ヶ月半で200チャネール登録!みんなありがとうございました!
其實我媽媽在2012年就建立這個頻道
In fact, my mother in 2012 to establish this channel
2012年に私の母はこのチャネルを成立しました
從我2歲開始,媽媽就上傳我唱歌的影片
From the time I was 2 years old, my mother uploaded my video
私が2歳だった頃から、母は私のビデオをアップロードしました
唱黃明志的歌,還被黃明志分享在他的臉書
I sang Namewee’s song, Namewee also shared in his facebook
Nameweeの歌を歌って、Nameweeも彼のFacebookにシェアしました
前幾個月我媽媽出車禍,肋骨斷了好幾根
A few months ago my mother in a car accident, broken several ribs
数ヶ月前に私の母親は交通事故で、いくつかの肋骨を折られました
醫生說要在家休養不能上班
The doctor said that my monther must rest at home and can not go to work
医者の言葉によって、母は家で休んで、会社に行くことができないです。
都是爸爸和阿媽在照顧我
My father and grandmother were looking after me
私の父と祖母は私を見守っていました
媽媽因為躺在床上太無聊了
Mother was too bored in the bed
母は丸一日ベッドであまりにも退屈だった
才想說好好的來經營我的頻道
She want to manage my channel
チャンネルを管理したいです
因為他製作影片要花很久的時間
Because he must make the video to take a long time
母はビデオを作るため、長い時間がかかります
す。
而且就算他躺在床上也能做
And even if he was lying in bed can do the thing
母がベッドに横たわっていても、そのことをすることができます
覺得時間一下就過去了
Make video will feel that time flies
ビデオを作る時間が速く過ぎました
所以我就開始拍片
So I started filming
だから私は撮影を始めました
我媽媽常說,我不是才剛出生嗎?
My mother used to say, am I not just born?
母はよく私に言って、生まれたばかりではない
怎麼一下就長大了
Why do you grow up so fast
なぜあなたはとても速く成長するのですか
所以她想用影片紀錄每天的我
So she wanted to use the video record my every day
だから彼女は私の毎日の動画を残したいです
以後長大才可以回顧
In the future, I also can review it.
将来、私はそれを回顧することもできます
而且我那麼愛唱歌
And I love singing so much
そして私はそんなに歌うのが大好き
以後在這裡唱才有人聽
I will have fans in the channel
私はチャンネルにファンに歌うことができます
她說這個頻道是她留給我一輩子最好的寶藏
She said that this channel is the best she left me a lifetime treasure
母はこのチャンネルが私にとって最高の宝だと言った
也是她對我的愛
The channel is her love for me
チャンネルが母の愛で作成されました
一月中我媽媽就要回去上班了
My mother will go back to work in January
私の母は1月に仕事場に戻ります
但是她說他還是會努力製作影片
But she said she will continue to make the video
しかし母はビデオを作り続けると言いました
今天是2016年的最後一天
Today is last day of 2016
今日は2016年の最後の日です
我們來看看我今年有什麼值得記念的事情
Let's watch what I have to remember this year
今年私の記念すべきことを見てみましょう
1月份我學會騎腳踏車,還有我在台灣看到下雪
In January I can ride a bike, and I saw snow in Taiwan
1月には自転車に乗ることができ、台湾では雪を見ました
我有去六福村玩,很近的看到獅子
I have to go to Leofoo Village to play, very close to see the lion
私は六福村に遊びに行きました、非常に近いライオンを見ることがあります
2月份 因為爸爸要去跑東京馬拉松,
In February because my father was going to join the Tokyo Marathon,
2月には父が東京マラソンに参加するために、
所以我也一起去日本東京自由行
So I went to Tokyo, Japan together
私は一緒に東京に行きました。 日本旅行
有去迪士尼,也有搭HATO BUS,去一個很好玩的兒童天地(Aneby) ,看到晴空塔
I went to Disney, take the HATO BUS, a very fun children world (Aneby) and went to skytree
ディズニーに行き、非常に楽しい子供の世界であるハトーバス(Aneby)を行ってskytreeにも行きました
還有去台場
I went to Odaiba, Lego Paradise, Lego Paradise very very fun
お台場に行きました
去富士電視台和小丸子,還有最近解散的SMAP照相
I also went to Fuji TV, to take a picture with Chibi Maruko and recently disbanded SMAP
私はまた、Fuji TVに行ってChibi Marukoと、最近解散したSMAPを写真を撮りました
樂高樂園超級無敵好玩
Lego Paradise, Lego Paradise veryfun
レゴパラダイスに行きました.レゴパラダイスはとても楽しい
最後還去大江戶溫泉
At last we went to Oedo Onsen
最後の日、大江戸温泉に行きました
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3月份 我上東森幼幼台參加比賽,想看的話請點這邊
In March, I went to YOYO TV to participate in the competition, you can click here to watch
3月はYOYO TVへ試合に参加しました。ここをクリックしてご覧下さい
還有從11/14開始我就拍片到現在
Also from 11/14 I began to take a vedio until now
また11/14から、私は今まで動画を作っています
要謝謝四葉草姐姐在臉書分享我的影片
Thanks to Joyce Chu for sharing my videos in Facebook
Facebookで動画をシェアしてくれたJoyce Chuに感謝します
也要謝謝心動音樂電台讓我當一日DJ
Also thank pulse radio let me become a one day DJ
また、私を1日DJになったパルスラジオにも感謝します
希望大家繼續支持我
I hope you will continue to support me
今後とも引き続きどうぞ宜しくお願いします
我會再介紹更多好玩,有趣的東東
I will introduce more fun, interesting things
私はもっと楽しいものを紹介します
唱更多好聽的歌喔!
Sing more songs!
もっと歌を歌います
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